Monday, January 24, 2011

Event Coordinator No More

I returned back from my afternoon meeting with a voice mail on my cell phone. I didn’t bother checking it right away because I figured it was my dentist office confirming my appointment for later this week. When I finally got around to listening to the message, it was from a young girl explaining that there was a personnel change at Falcon’s Fire and she would be the new event coordinator for my wedding. She seemed extremely nice and wanted Groomzilla and I to come in so she could have the chance to meet us as well as discuss the details of our wedding. She assured me that nothing regarding our contract had changed and that everything would be the same as the day we had signed it. I returned her call and set up an appointment to meet with her this Saturday (which I have to reschedule because Groomzilla has to work). I started thinking that Thank God we really hadn't gotten far along enough with the previous woman to lose any headway.

Has anyone else had a wedding/event coordinator personnel change during your planning process or right before your big day?? How did that affect or not affect your day??

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Finding the Perfect Bridal Jewelry

I have yet to start looking for bridal jewelry for myself or for my maids but found this website filled with gorgeous and perfect items for you and your girls on your special day. Lots of items are on sale and with this handy dandy code you can save even more!

Visit Moon River Pearls and enter coupon code BRIDE at checkout and save 20% off any order and even sale items. There is no minimum order amount required and free ground shipping is another bonus!

Featured below are a few of my faves that can also be found in the bridal section here.

Classic white pearl necklace on sale for $85.40


White pearl choker on sale for $83.30
Looks beautiful hung loose or twisted as shown here in the picture.


White mother of pearl necklace with silver pave clasp on sale for $104.30
I own the necklace and bracelet set and can’t even tell you how many compliments I get when wearing this beautiful set!


Multi color potato pearl necklace on sale for $45.50
A little something more bold but still gorgeous


Nothing says elegant and classy like these white pearl delicate dangle earrings on sale for $47.20


And don’t forget the little ones in your bridal party with this adorable sweetheart heart tag pearl bracelet on sale for $28.00

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Non-Wedding Wednesday

I struggled to come up with a topic for today's Non-Wedding Wednesday post because A.) Nothing really happened today to pique an inspiration and B.) Everything I wanted to write about had everything to do with the wedding, completely defeating the purpose of Non-Wedding Wednesday.

So, because of my lack of creativity today, I am just going to have a little bit of fun.

Ten things you may or may not know about me:

1. I always wanted to be a famous actress
2. Groomzilla calls me Maxine before I have my morning coffee
3. I have a love/hate relationship with having a career
4. People think I exercise religiously..I don't
5. Toothpaste makes me gag
6. I am self-conscious when chewing gum
7. I sleep with wasp spray next to my bed
8. I pick my nose
9. I once stole candy from the A&P
10. I miss having a phone that only makes calls and sends text messages

What are some things you can admit that no one knows about you??

Oh and apparently I like wearing silly glasses and having big eyebrows, remember the 1st grade bum picture?!



In case you forgot

Monday, January 17, 2011

Band Search Resumes

As some of you know I had temporarily put the band hunt on hold for a bit because I was getting discouraged when they were telling me I was too proactive and looking to book them way too early based on how far out our date was.

I had put out some inquiries via a website that Groomzilla had found, Gig Masters, a few months ago and many of my quotes had been denied because they were not booking out that far. Yes I was disappointed but completely understood as one band manager explained to me that band members come and go so frequently and that by the time our wedding came around we may be listening to a whole different band. I suppose this is a safety net for both the band and for us as well.

Any who, one of the bands I had put an inquiry in with through the gigmasters site was very persistent and I appreciated his follow up and advice when he reached out to me via a phone call. He gave me a couple of upcoming dates that they had scheduled to play and it just so happens that they are playing next weekend the 21st at a local upscale bar/restaurant. I have had the date penciled in on my calendar for months now and finally it is just around the corner! This is the band we are going to see this weekend Think Big

I hope we both decide that we like them but I think I am going to have trouble getting through to Groomzilla that what we are looking for is a “wedding band” and not a “rock band”. These are two COMPLETELY different genres, although how cool would it be to have Paul McCartney perform at our wedding?! Whoa for a second there I thought I was the future Princess to be, Kate Middleton, back to reality for you Bridezilla!

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Say I Do in These Lovely Shoes!

DSW is launching their new wedding shoe shop! They offer all styles fit for brides, bridesmaids, and mothers of the bride! I know I have not reached the point of my wedding shoe search but thought this might be helpful for all you ladies who have. They offer some really cute selections so take a peek and hope you stumble across something you like.

I think these Steve Madden Rossa Flats for $69.95 are adorable and could even work for bridesmaids once they are ready to kick off the uncomfortable heels and hit the dance floor!

I am waiting for wedding shoe shopping because I just booked a weekend in mid March to travel to Boston where all my girls and mother can meet for dress shopping (both for them and for me). I am holding out until then to try on any wedding dresses (and shoes) so we can all experience it for the first time together! More on that later.

Have you found your wedding shoes yet? Please share!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Non-Wedding Wednesday

Not long after I birthed the Non-Wedding Wednesday segment I realized Wednesday was the night I have class and finding the time to prepare a post would pose a bit of a time crunch but so far so good and thanks for bearing with me.

Today’s post will consist of a mid-week update as this has stared off to be a busy week.

Monday – Groomzilla started back to work training for his new job. Not sure who had the worst separation anxiety; Groomzilla or the dog?

Tuesday – Relax night, cooked dinner and played scrabble with Groomzilla.

Wednesday – Class started back up, I sure enjoyed my winter break and have to readjust back into my school routine. Hoping to continue to find the time to post Non-Wedding Wednesdays.

Thursday – Dinner and movie night with the girls. Chilis and Life as We Know it.

Friday – Work service awards banquet. Can’t believe I celebrated my five year service anniversary in November! A little sad that we are missing out on M and J’s Festivus for the Rest of us party, but looking forward to dressing up and enjoying a nice night out with Groomzilla.

Saturday – Snafu Concert at the Hard Rock – our friend R plays in a band and we try to go out and support whenever we can. Yes, we somewhat seriously asked R to play at our wedding but we already knew the answer.

Sunday – Chill and relax day for Groomzilla and I. We have been so busy with social functions lately that we have not had any “us” time. I’d like to get back to Crockpot Sundays (sounds like a name for another blog segment)!

Miscellaneous Items

Boot Camp – Groomzilla and I have completed the first week of the New Year and into our second week sticking with our three times per week promise.

The Ring – Still working on getting used to the beads that were put in; a girlfriend told me it takes the body up to two weeks to adjust and get used to a new feel.

I think that is about it for now, until next Wednesday! How’s your week going??

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Help! Black Tie Attire

So ladies, what is the attire protocol for women when invited to a black tie wedding in Central Park when one of the hosts of honor just happens to be a Rockefeller?

Will only a long flowing dress beaded with miles of sequence suffice or can you get away with a dress that falls to the knee?

According to the ehow articles below, black tie for men means only one thing: a tux. The article for women states that women should wear a dress that is as long and or as fancy as possible. Dresses that fall to the knee would be considered as semi-formal.

Black Tie for Women

Black Tie for Men

What do you think appropriate attire for a woman should be to a black tie wedding? Have you ever been in attendance to one or was yours a black tie affair? What was the general attire for the men and women?

I just love receiving suggestions for post ideas from some of my readers who are looking for help from my bridal following. This one came from someone near and dear to me so any help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.

From Rags to Riches – Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman went with a long red dress with white gloves to the formal opera. Her hunky man Richard Gere wore a stunning tux.



Some gorgeous black tie suggestions by Outblush.com

All under $300

1 - Calvin Klein Sleeveless Empire Waist Gown ($116 on sale)

2 - BCBG Max Azria Pleated Silk Gown ($298)

3 - Aqua Side Pleated Strapless Gown ($270, in 3 colors)

4 - Amsale Long Silk Gown with Rosettes ($290)

5 - Laundry by Shelli Segal Halter Matte Jersey Gown ($275)

6 - Amsale Charcoal One Shoulder Gown ($290)

More details on these six dresses here.

All under $500

1 - BCBG Max Azria Strapless Silk Gown ($360)

2 - Mignon Short Sleeve Evening Gown in Dove-Silver ($438)

3 - Adrianna Papell Mesh Overlay Strapless Gown in Navy ($196)

4 - Tasdashi Mesh Gown ($320)

5 - JS Collections Satin Stripe Gown ($300)

6 - Love by Enzoani Taffeta Strapless Evening Dress in Blush ($498)

More details on these six dresses here.